The Kerala story


In the lush landscapes of Kerala, there exists a troubling trend that is casting a shadow over the aspirations of our youth. Driven by societal pressures and parental expectations, many parents in Kerala are fervently pushing their children towards careers in engineering or medicine, often at the expense of their mental and emotional well-being.

This relentless pursuit of academic excellence manifests itself in the form of exorbitant spending on coaching centres in faraway cities like Kota or Hyderabad. Parents, fuelled by a desire to see their children succeed, spare no expense in providing them with every possible advantage to excel in these highly competitive fields.

However, behind the façade of ambition lies a darker reality. Many of these students, burdened by the weight of unrealistic expectations and the crushing demands of an unforgiving syllabus, find themselves struggling to cope. The pressure to perform at an elite level takes a toll on their mental health, leading to feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, and despair.

Tragically, some students, unable to bear the weight of their parents' dreams, succumb to the darkness of despair and choose to end their lives. Each suicide is a stark reminder of the human cost of this relentless pursuit of academic perfection.

But this isn't just a Kerala problem; it's a societal issue that demands our collective attention and action. We cannot continue to measure the worth of our youth solely by their academic achievements. We must recognize that true success is not defined by a degree or a profession, but by the fulfilment of one's passions and the realization of one's potential.

Instead of pressuring our children to conform to predetermined paths, let us encourage them to explore their interests and pursue their passions. Let us create a culture where failure is seen not as a setback, but as an opportunity for growth and learning. And let us prioritize the mental health and well-being of our youth above all else, providing them with the support and resources they need to thrive, regardless of their chosen path.

In conclusion, let us heed the call to action and address the root causes of this troubling trend. Let us strive to create a society where every child is valued for their unique talents and abilities, and where their happiness and well-being are prioritized above all else.


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