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 ### **5 Inspiring Stories of People Who Left IT Jobs for Skilled Trades/Self-Employment (And Thrived!)**   These real-life examples prove that **success exists beyond corporate jobs**—with grit, adaptability, and passion.   --- ## **1. From Software Engineer to Organic Farmer (Rajesh Krishnan, Bengaluru)**   **Background**:   - Worked at Infosys for 8 years.   - Burnt out from coding deadlines, dreamed of farming since childhood.   **Transition**:   - Quit in 2017, took a **6-month organic farming course** (by NABARD).   - Started with **1 acre of barren family land** in Tamil Nadu.   **Struggles**:   - No water supply → Installed drip irrigation with govt. subsidies.   - No buyers → Sold veggies via **WhatsApp groups** to local apartments.   **Success**:   - Now earns **₹1.2 lakh/month** supplying organic produce to 200+ families.   - Runs a ...

 Absolutely! Let’s break down each key point in detail, with explanations, real-world examples, and actionable solutions.   --- ### **1. Why Are Youngsters Avoiding Self-Employed/Skilled Jobs?**   #### **Reasons:**   - **Social Stigma**: Blue-collar work (plumbing, carpentry) is often seen as "low status" compared to office jobs.   - **Education System Bias**: Schools push students toward degrees, not vocational training.   - **Income Perception**: Many assume trades pay poorly, but skilled artisans in high-demand areas (e.g., electricians in cities) can earn more than entry-level IT workers.   - **Urban Glamour**: Metro IT jobs are marketed as "modern" and aspirational.   #### **Solutions:**   - **Rebranding Trades**: Germany’s "dual education system" combines apprenticeships with schooling, making skilled labor prestigious.   - **Financial Incentives**: Governments can offer tax breaks or st...

  ### **1. Declining Interest in Self-Employed/Skilled Manual Jobs** - **Youth Aspirations vs. Reality**: Many young people prefer white-collar IT jobs over traditional skilled trades (carpentry, plumbing, masonry, etc.), viewing them as more prestigious or financially rewarding. - **Urban Migration**: The allure of metro cities and corporate jobs has led to a shortage of skilled laborers in rural and semi-urban areas. - **Aging Workforce**: Many skilled artisans (carpenters, masons, electricians) are aging, with fewer young people replacing them, leading to labor shortages. **Impact**:   - Rising costs for manual labor due to scarcity.   - Dependence on migrant laborers in some regions.   - Decline in local craftsmanship and self-reliance. ### **2. AI and Automation Disrupting IT Jobs** - **Job Redundancy**: AI, machine learning, and automation are replacing routine IT jobs (coding, testing, data entry, customer support).   - **Mass Retrench...

The Future of Human Life and Work: A Looming Crisis Are we witnessing the slow collapse of essential human services while chasing digital illusions? Introduction In today’s rapidly evolving world, humanity faces a silent yet alarming crisis. As artificial intelligence (AI) advances and youth migrate toward tech careers, society is dangerously neglecting essential self-employment services that form the foundation of everyday life. The Disappearing Workforce in Essential Trades Skilled professionals—carpenters, plumbers, masons, tailors, electricians, home nurses, and palliative care workers—are now difficult to find. These aren’t luxuries; they’re necessities. The absence of such workers has real consequences: Homes remain unrepaired. The elderly struggle without support. Agricultural activity declines. Basic services vanish from rural life. The Metro Dream and Its Harsh Reality Over the past two decades, countless young people from towns and villages chased careers i...

1. The Great Neglect of Essential Services Jobs like carpentry, plumbing, farming, and caregiving form the backbone of any society. These are real, hands-on human activities that AI or machines cannot fully replace. Yet, we see: A shortage of skilled workers in villages and towns. Delayed or unaffordable services because trained professionals are scarce. Older generation suffering as finding a mason or a barber becomes a struggle. 2. Obsession with White-Collar IT Jobs Youngsters, especially from rural areas, migrate to metro cities chasing IT jobs. These jobs once promised high pay and prestige. Now, AI and automation are threatening their stability. Massive layoffs and retrenchments have started. AI tools are doing the work of coders, analysts, content creators. 3. The Irony of Migration and Urban Dream Many families sold land or took loans to educate their children for IT jobs. Now, if these children lose jobs and return , parents may not have land or incom...

Title: “The Storm and the Silence” Once upon a time in a quiet town in South India, a girl was born into a humble, disciplined home. Her father, a principled bank officer who had risen through hard work despite being born with a disability, and her mother, a soft-spoken yet strong-willed woman, welcomed her like a blessing from the skies. From a young age, it was clear their daughter was gifted. She spoke like a thinker, questioned like a scientist, and soared through academics like a star in flight. Her IQ was off the charts, and her schoolteachers often said, “She’ll change the world one day.” But the world is not always kind to brilliance—especially brilliance that burns a little too bright. At 21, just as she stepped into the threshold of adulthood, the clouds began to gather. Her laughter, once free and spontaneous, began to grow erratic. Her sleep became irregular, her thoughts raced, and her once-loving conversations turned confrontational. Her father, now retired, watched ...

: A Father's Prayer It was just another evening — or so it seemed. But for a father living under the constant shadow of his daughter’s illness, no evening was ever truly ordinary. The sun had set, but the weight in his heart only grew heavier. His daughter, struggling with bipolar disorder, had once again refused to take her night medication — the lifeline that kept her stable, calm, and connected to the world. Her prescriptions were clear: Olanzapine and Lumateperone 42 mg , to be taken at night. Yet, as with many suffering from bipolar disorder, she had begun to distrust the very thing meant to heal her. She looked at the tablets with suspicion, her mood unpredictable, her mind tangled in thoughts only she could understand. "No, I won’t take them today," she said sharply. Those few words pierced deeper than a thousand knives. The father, a man of quiet strength forged through years of personal struggles, now found himself trembling — not from cold, but from helples...

God – The Divine Refuge of Human Grief Human life, for all its wonders and achievements, is inevitably touched by sorrow. From the moment we become conscious of our surroundings, we are exposed to loss, disappointment, pain, and uncertainty. No one, however fortunate, lives untouched by grief. It may come in the form of death, illness, injustice, loneliness, or unfulfilled dreams. Grief, in its countless forms, becomes an inseparable companion to our existence. Faced with such profound suffering, human beings sought solace. Our hearts, heavy with sorrow, longed for comfort beyond what the world could offer. It is from this longing that we created – or perhaps discovered – a supreme force: God. Not as an escape, but as a refuge. Not as a fantasy, but as a divine presence we could turn to when the world felt too heavy to bear. God became more than just an idea; He became hope. In moments when words failed, when loved ones could not understand our pain, when even time did not heal wo...

  For over 15 years, my daughter’s struggle with bipolar disorder has been a deep and painful journey—one that shook our family to its core. In our desperate pursuit of stability for her mind and peace for our hearts, we tried nearly a dozen medications. Each new prescription came with the hope of healing, but most faded into the background with little relief. The anguish of watching her drift between emotional extremes, unable to find balance, was a torment no words can fully capture. As a father, it broke me in ways I never imagined possible. Then, just yesterday, a new chapter quietly began. Her psychiatrist introduced a medicine called Lumateperone —a name unfamiliar to many, but one that now carries the weight of our hopes. She was prescribed 42 mg to be taken once at night. Almost immediately, we noticed subtle shifts: a calm in her demeanor, a gentleness in her voice, a flicker of light returning to her gaze. These small signs are like sacred gifts to us. Lumateperone i...

 Lumateperone (**Caplyta**) helps patients with **schizophrenia** and **bipolar depression** by modulating key neurotransmitter systems in the brain, leading to improvements in symptoms like hallucinations, mood instability, and cognitive dysfunction. Here’s how it works in different ways:   --- ### **1. Improves Psychotic Symptoms (Schizophrenia)**   Lumateperone helps regulate **dopamine and serotonin**, which are often imbalanced in schizophrenia.   - **Blocks excessive dopamine (D2) activity** in the mesolimbic pathway → reduces **hallucinations, delusions, and disorganized thinking**.   - Unlike older antipsychotics, it has **lower D2 occupancy**, meaning fewer side effects like tremors or rigidity.   - **Antagonizes serotonin 5-HT2A receptors** → helps stabilize mood and cognition while reducing negative symptoms (e.g., social withdrawal, apathy).   --- ### **2. Lifts Depression (Bipolar Disorder)**   Lumat...

 Lumateperone (brand name **Caplyta**) is an atypical antipsychotic medication approved by the **U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA)** for the treatment of:   - **Schizophrenia** in adults (approved in 2019)   - **Bipolar depression** (as monotherapy or adjunctive therapy in adults, approved in 2021)   ### **Mechanism of Action**   Lumateperone has a unique pharmacological profile, acting as:   - A **serotonin 5-HT2A receptor antagonist** (like many atypical antipsychotics)   - A **dopamine D2 receptor antagonist** (with preferential binding to presynaptic receptors)   - A **serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SRI)**   - A modulator of **glutamatergic (NMDA/AMPA) and GABAergic neurotransmission**   This multi-receptor activity may contribute to its efficacy in both schizophrenia and bipolar depression with a relatively favorable side-effect profile.   ### **Dosage**   - The r...

The Extravagance of Modern Weddings: A Social Evil in Disguise In today’s society, weddings have evolved from being simple ceremonies of union to grand spectacles of opulence and excess. Recently, I witnessed a marriage conducted in a palatial hall, managed by a high-end event management company. By all indications, the bride's father might have spent over ten lakh rupees on the event. This made me reflect deeply on the growing trend of lavish weddings and the values they represent. In an age marked by uncertainty in married life and rising societal challenges, such extravagance appears not only unnecessary but also a troubling social evil. The Burden of Social Expectations Weddings are meant to celebrate love, companionship, and the beginning of a new life. However, societal expectations have transformed these intimate occasions into competitive displays of wealth. Families, particularly in India, often feel pressured to host grand events to uphold their social image. This pr...

  The Journey of Life: A Reflection As I approach my 74th year, life’s vast landscape unfolds before me, painted with the memories of people who shaped my existence. My heart revisits the corridors of time, where I walked with love, laughter, and the unbreakable bonds of companionship. My parents, whose gentle hands guided my first steps. My grandparents, whose stories whispered the wisdom of the ages. My uncles and aunties, who filled my childhood with warmth and mirth. My school and college friends, whose youthful dreams echoed alongside mine. My colleagues, who stood beside me through the tides of work and ambition. My wife, my anchor, my partner in life’s dance. My daughter, my pride, my legacy of love. Each moment spent with them feels like a melody etched in time, played by the unseen strings of memory. But time, relentless and unwavering, moves forward. With every passing day, I read the obituary notices of those I once worked with, those I once greeted with a smile. And i...

  The Journey of Life: A Reflection As I approach my 74th year, life’s vast landscape unfolds before me, painted with the memories of people who shaped my existence. My heart revisits the corridors of time, where I walked with love, laughter, and the unbreakable bonds of companionship. My parents, whose gentle hands guided my first steps. My grandparents, whose stories whispered the wisdom of the ages. My uncles and aunties, who filled my childhood with warmth and mirth. My school and college friends, whose youthful dreams echoed alongside mine. My colleagues, who stood beside me through the tides of work and ambition. My wife, my anchor, my partner in life’s dance. My daughter, my pride, my legacy of love. Each moment spent with them feels like a melody etched in time, played by the unseen strings of memory. But time, relentless and unwavering, moves forward. With every passing day, I read the obituary notices of those I once worked with, those I once greeted with a smile. And i...